Incredible memoir about an unconventional marriage. The narrator was a serious dancer in her childhood, a ballerina in training, who meets her husband, finishes college with a journalism degree, then ends up in LA working as a creative at an ad agency, supporting her husband through architecture school and then as he becomes an artist. She’s always been bisexual, and insists on an open marriage, finding flings with other women. He eventually has his own flings as he goes off to artist residencies and spends a year in NYC. The two are twins, but float apart, and back together. Beautifully written by Leah Dieterich.