Another great quick read from JK! Most of the plot rumbled along flatly until the last hundred or so action packed pages. Romance in the air, Harry growing up and talking back to teachers and second guessing Dumbledore, the characters are definitely changing. Major character’s death, as promised. Can’t wait for book 7!
Although it took me 10 months to meander through this book, this isn’t a reflection of the book’s interestingness or quality, but rather a reflection on my inability to focus. Every time I would pick this up to read a chapter over the last few months, waves of calm washed over me.
Main idea is that flow is good, harmonious, and is achieved by setting a goal that is high enough yet reachable, and expending enough energy to keep yourself occupied, and picking a goal that transcends self but complements the inner cares. And now onto another Csikszentmihalyi book: Good Business: Leadership, Flow, and the Making of Meaning.
Basic premise that we filter our consciousness already b/c there are too many stimuli, so why not create a filter that makes us happy?
“How we feel about ourselves, the joy we get from living, ultimately depend directly on how the mind filters and interprets everyday experiences.”
Once you understand how to control your filter/experiences, you must do it consistently, constantly. An exercise to combat atrophy of control.
How to improve the quality of experience:
Attention. “We create ourselves by how we invest [our attention]. Memories, thoughts, and feelings are all shaped by how we use it. And it is an energy under our control, to do with as we please; hence, attention is our most important tool in the task of improving the quality of experience.”
The elements of enjoyment:
1. Confront tasks we have a chance of completing; a challenging activity that requires skills
2. Concentrate on what we are doing; the merging of action and awareness
3. Task has clear goals
4. Task provides immediate feedback
5. Act with a deep (but effortless) involvement that removes worries & frustrations of everyday life; concentration on the task at hand
6. Task allows you to exercise a sense of control over your actions
7. Task removes the concern for the self; loss of self-consciousness
8. Task alters sense of time; the transformation of time
Autotelic experience (from Greek: auto- self, telos- goal) is a self-contained activity done not for future benefit, but b/c doing it is the reward.
Conditions of flow: transform the self by making it more complex; line between boredom and anxiety; increase the challenge (which takes you closer to anxiety), but then you increase your skills (which takes you closer to boredom)
Last Sunday, I took the facinating Dogpatch/Potrero Point walking tour with the SF CityGuides.
I hugely enjoyed Helprin’s collection of short stories (The Pacific), so am trying him on for longer stories. So far so good.
Helprin is a yummy, aesthetically pleasing writer– these were great stories from the war (WWI), set in Italy and Austria/Hungary. Some very surreal moments, such as the Austrian field marshal who fakes all his battles to keep his troops safe, and takes Alessandro on as a private secretary after he finds Alessandro wandering delirious in the field eating roses. The cattle boat where everyone had to forget their squadron’s names, the confused general who confiscated Alessandro’s ham after he knocked on the hotel door (wrong hotel!), Orfeo and the sap, Rafi’s frozen body and rapelling down the glacier, Alessandro setting out to walk 2 days with the boy who missed the bus. Great stories, I will continue to read through his published work.
This bio of Steve Jobs brought about the ban on selling Wiley books from all Apple retail stores, which I think is unncessarily harsh. The book doesn’t shy away from exposing Steve’s megalomania, but also offers up much praise for Steve’s creativity and the impressive feat of dominating 3 industries (computer, film, music). Enjoyable read.
Not such engaging prose… maybe some other time.
Can’t get into it. I like my mysteries better written.
Another yummy plot from JK. Didn’t really enjoy the Dumbledore monologue at the end where he catches Harry up with the history of his scar. Was definitely laughing out loud at parts involving Professor Umbridge, the pink cardigan “Hem hem!” stout and pursed lips professor from the Ministry of Magic who takes over the school when Dumbledore flees.
I’m an aunt (again)! This time I’m welcoming the first female addition to the family– Anne Linnea. She’s only a few hours old and already my favorite niece.
Happy birthday Anne! A healthy 9 lbs 11 oz, and 2 weeks early!
Best of recooperating to Mom Christine and congrats to the whole K family!
Somewhat interesting peek into the Jordanian queen (ex pat American)’s life with King Hussein. Not much revealed in terms of personal life, but a lot of observations on political machinations during the 70s and beyond.
Quick read… didn’t provide too much more than I got from the DVD of Supersize Me, Spurlock’s movie about eating only McD for 30 days.
Eat less but eat fresh, excercise more.
Sugar is bad.
Preparing for my day in court to get the remaining $210 of my security deposit back from landlord Bill Newland. I rented a unit at 601 Minnesota St in San Francisco for 15 months. Bill thought that I didn’t stay long enough, and decided to dock me for repainting the unit, which is not allowable under California law. This book has some good tips on how to prepare for small claims court. Giddyup!
Update– this is a helpful book, really detailed. The 15 or so pages on security deposits convinced me that I had a case. I sent my demand letter (see below), and 5 days later received a check for the remaining $210, with a petulant handwritten letter from the landlord complaining that I was the first tenant in 13 years who had threatened small claims court. Thanks Bill! I’m the first tenant who stood up for herself? Glad to hear it. At any rate, no further need for this book.
Received letter 6/18
From Bill: “…You moved in 3/20/04 with an $1825 deposit and moved out 6/9/05, approximately 15 months later… I know your circumstances changed but I was disappointed you moved out so soon as we have additional expenses to return the unit to rentable condition. My painter charged $210 to touch up and repaint areas of the unit… which I believe fair to charge you after such a short tenancy…”
My response 6/23:
I received a partial payment of my security deposit from you and would appreciate your prompt payment of the remaining $210. You deducted $210 from the deposit to cover the cost of painting the unit. Since I did not paint the unit while I stayed there, I assume the paint job was to cover a few scuffmarks on the walls, e.g. normal wear & tear.
I moved into the unit on 3/20/04 and moved out almost fifteen months later on 6/9/05. The term of my lease was twelve months. I had my walk through of the apartment with Mike K., the building manager, on 6/9/05. Mike pointed out 3 areas that needed additional cleaning (top of cabinets, kitchen roof, bathtub) which I took care of that day. I was never informed that I was on the hook to pay for painting the apartment. Had I been told so, I would have purchased a small amount of paint for less than $10 to cover the few scuffmarks on the wall that your painter took care of.
Additionally, the receipt you furnished with your explanation of the deduction is suspect. The receipt states that the work was performed at units 202 and 218, and you have crossed through “202” in 2 places on the receipt, and have handwritten “218” to replace “202”.
Lastly, I put $200 worth of improvements into the unit by installing additional storage/shelving by the closet at the back of the unit.
Please send a check for $210 on or before June 30. If I don’t receive payment by that date, I’ll file this case in small claims court.”
From Bill, 6/28:
“I received your registered letter of June 22. You’re the first tenant in thirteen years to threaten to take me to small claims court… I do not wish to spend more time on this and am enclosing the remaining $210 of your deposit.”
Well, thanks Bill.
Ok, no, it only looks like it’s made out of books. Very cool!
Jared Diamond’s book put on TV in a 3 part PBS series starting July 11, airing Mondays. I usually opt not to see the televised/filmed verison if I particularly enjoyed the book, but am curious about how this comes off. DVR is set to record!